Monday, June 8, 2009

Had a tough weekend : (

For once, I'm glad the weekend is over. I think this is the first time that I've ever welcomed the coming of a Monday!

Friday was just an all around FAIL for me. I wasn't feeling 100%, but decided to come into work anyway; I want to save as much sick time as I can for my leave. My carpool buddy picked me up at the house and about half way to work, he informs me that he won't be able to take me home. Yeah. Great. Thanks-a-fucking-lot. Jerk. I figured I'd deal with that later, after I ate my breakfast of heavenly vending machine bear claw. Only, the damn machine didn't have any bear claws! It didn't have donuts, it didn't have danish. I had nothing, the whole bottom row was empty! Later on Mr. Asshat Carpool Buddy calls to tell me his brilliant plan! He can drop me off at a grocery store near the freeway and DH can come pick me up from there! Isn't that such an awesome idea!? Um...no...you fail again. Sorry. WTH was he thinking? He's married and has kids, how the hell would he feel if someone did that to HIS very pregnant wife?! I tell him to forget it and that DH will come get me from work (which incidentally, added another half hour to my day). I have officially canceled our arrangement. He knows I'm pissed at him, and I'm ok with that. I figure I'll want my own transportation from here on out anyway. I'm full term this week and don't want to have to count on him for anything if something should happen while I'm at work.

Yesterday DH promised that we would paint the rest of the upstairs after he came home from selling a bunch of crap at a car swap meet. I had everything all ready to go when he got home, but do you think we actually painted? Nope. He was too tired. We spent the entire rest of the day on the couch watching TV. Not normally something I would complain about, but when you have a shit load of stuff to take care of before baby gets here, any down time seems like such a waste!

His "tired" excuse is really starting to piss me the fuck off. No matter what I want to do, he's always tiiiiired. Remember how the doc took me off pelvic rest last week? You'd think that we've been going at it like bunnies after being deprived for four months (hell, I thought we would!), but in reality, we've only done it ONCE since then. I've been turned down every damn day for the past five days. Multiple times a day. I'm starting to think that "tired" isn't the real reason...

My little sister left for Korea yesterday. I knew it was coming and had prepared myself for it, so that in and of itself wasn't so upsetting. What got to me was that she had a good week before she had to report for duty and instead of coming home to spend time with her family, she chose to go to California and hang out with her friends and asshat boyfriend (who I'm almost positive is cheating on her). I got a call from her yesterday, right as she was checking in at the airport and only got to talk to her for about 5 minutes before she had to go through security. She'll be gone a year and I didn't even get to hug her goodbye. I spent most of yesterday bawling; alternating between sad "I miss her" tears and pissed "I can't believe she did that" tears. She also didn't call our mom before she left; she asked me to do it for her...

She called again this morning to let me know that she'd made it ok. I had to make sure she called our mom this time 'cause you can never tell with her anymore. Luckily, she already had.

So YAY MONDAY! I hope this week is better than last.

5 comments:

Bee said...

Sorry you had such a rough weekend, lovf. Hope this week is a ton better for you!

Shell said...

I'm so sorry. It sounds like you had a heck of a weekend. What can you say, sometimes sisters will be sisters...I know I have 3! Hopefully your week will go better and you can trip asshat carpool guy on his way into his office. (oops) :)

Carly said...

(( hugs )) i will keep your sister in my thoughts. and WTF carpool buddy? who does that? And can I tell you- your tired story made me Lol bc I flipped on eric the other night for telling me how tired he was. Try being pg, not sleeping, trying to get a never ending to do list done, etc. You will be great and everything will get done- and if it doesn't? you will still be ok. Just know that

Z said...

Awww, sweety! Yay for Monday. :)

Everything will work out. You're full term soon and I'm sure part of H's prob is baby stress. He knows everything is coming term soon and I bet that's scary for him. Not an excuse, but maybe part of the reason. *hugs* If we lived closer, I'd come help paint! I love to paint.

Molly said...

I'm so sorry you had such a crappy weekend. I will be thinking of you in the coming weeks!