Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Whispering to myself

"Just because something sad is happening to another poster, does not mean it will happen to me. We all know m/c and complications are not contagious!"

"My past does not dictate my future. A previous m/c does not mean I will have another m/c."

So much sadness on 1st Tri today; I've been going over and over these in my head all day. I've only known about this little one for about two weeks, and I'm really trying to stay away from negative thoughts, but it's so hard! I'm freaking myself out, I've even taken to using panty liners so I can tell right away if there is any spotting (none so far, thank God). I'm getting so anxious for Monday's appt.

4 comments:

Leannabanna said...

Hey Lovf - GL at your appointment next week - Its so hard to hang out of first tri and see all of the m/c posts - but I just read in one of the pregnancy books that staying optimistic will improve your chances of an optimistic outcome. I will be thinking about you all week. GL again - your in my thoughts and prayers this week.

Ro said...

Today, you are pregnant and you love your baby.

We're here for you, honey and I'm sure that everything will be perfect at your appoiintment on Monday!

((HUGS))

Lindsey said...

I wish I could give you a hug hun. I had to stay away from 1st tri for awhile b/c it was too sad and it started really scaring me.
Keep reminding yourself this is THE pregnancy and you are going to be a mommy. I can't wait to hear about your appt.
muah.

Molly said...

Sending you lots of happy thoughts and lots of prayers.